Have you ever picked a word for the New Year?
I went to an advocacy event a few years ago, and as part of the decompressing and debriefing, we created collages and chose one word for our next year. That was 2014 and I chose the word: Create.
It calmed me when I fretted about things like, oh say, rejections from editors. (Don’t worry, just create more, I told myself.) More importantly, it was the answer when I wondered, “What should I do next? What should I do right now?” Create.
I entered 2015 with the word: Publish. Again, whenever I struggled to prioritize, I went back to my go-to word. We did alright on that front, publishing Marcus’ Book, Black Day: The Monster Rock Band and co-authoring The Parent’s Guide to Down Syndrome just released Jan. 1st, 2016.
You may not realize this, ‘course – then again it may be obvious by my blogging style, but I can be a bit scattered. My to-do list is all #1’s. I used to keep a George Carlin quote on my desk, “Always do whatever’s next.” Because, looking at the big piles on my desk, floor, house, office – Everything is important and Everyone wants “a piece of me” – picking what’s next isn’t always easy, you know what I mean?
By having a word, one word, it helped me to clarify the bottom line.
OK, 2016 begins and last year I had in my mind that this year’s word would be Marketing. But…life. 2015 I learned and let go and, well, I’m pretty good at learning. At least, I should be because I do it All. The. Time. But letting go? Not so good at that. SO, to say I “let go” is an overstatement. I’ve thought about starting to appreciate the concept of choosing battles and assignments, playing to strengths – which may mean giving up on a few of my weaker points, what is winning and what is losing, and more vague but pretty sounding expressions. The point is, all signs point to big changes, again, in 2016. Perhaps a sign of my own failure. Perhaps a sign of my previous success, with all the potential for future failure. There is nothing I fear and hate more than failing.
BUT That’s not what we’re talking about here – we’re talking about the 2016 word. I think you can tell I’m at a crossroads. I’m undecided. I’m afraid and also preparing. I’m conflicted.
To help me clarify, I made a word art.
I’ve been playing with these word clouds. So I rambled, much like this blog, into a document about what I want for 2016. What I’ve done and what I feel even with so many unknowns floating about, and I found my word: Purpose.
I knew it the second I typed it in. It was like in the movies, a light shown and a small bell rang in my brain. (ting!)
That’s the word for 2016.
Now, it’s a bit trickier then my previous choices as Create and Publish were both specific verbs, their own call to action. This word, Purpose, holds more flexibility. Yet, I still see it guiding me. I want to have purpose and to serve a purpose. I want my actions to reflect this. When choosing where to put my energies, I will be reminded to ask, “What purpose does this serve? Does it align with *my* purpose?” I want my next steps to be chosen on purpose. I don’t want to slip and slide through the days, I want purpose to show in every interaction.
So there you go. I feel a little more ready for the New Year with this mantra in my pocket.
What about you? This blog is part of the lovely Finish The Sentence Friday BlogHop hosted by Finding Ninee where I selfishly chose to co-host so that I can read what you all have planned for 2016. What is your word? and I look forward to seeing where that takes you! Join in here: